Tuesday, May 20, 2008

latest ultrasound

Sooo today is a tireddd day but I have things to do- including 2 meetings at the shul. We will see how that goes! My latest ultrasound guesstimation (b/c thats what it really is- it can go either 30% up or down), is the baby is 7 lbs, 13 ozs :) :) Ha! So when the ultrasound womyn told me that, she gave me this "thats a BIG baby" look. I want a big baby. I think big babies are healthy and strong and full of life. I fully predict I will have a large child, as I am a big boned womyn and the donor is 6'0"- if I had a 5 lb baby I would be worried!

He is in the 96% for his height and weight :) Hahaa. I think its funny. I'm enjoying it. However the bigger he gets- the less likely its gonna become that I have a vaginal delivery and I would have a c-section. Which means lots of fun medical stuff.. But at least it would be planned and over within a short amount of time. It means IVs, catheters (sp?), epidurals, stitches, oxygen most likely and cutting open my abdomen. And most likely for 2nd child another c-section.

And the other question would be when? I would say he can still grow for another 2 weeks which would make me around 38ish weeks and be around 9 lbs. But since there is such a room for error- what if he is only 6 lbs now and they are measuring wrong? Ya know? I don't want go into a c-section thinking I have a big baby and doing it prematurely and then end up w/a smaller child that I could have had vaginally...

It's something to ponder. I am not sure.. but I am not exactly at that cross-roads yet, but will start letting the thought ping-pong in my brain. At this point I would say that I hope to labor naturally, which also I believe will end up with IVs, epidurals, pitocin (thats the only thing I wouldn't have if I had a c-section), catheters, etc..

So we shall see. Ahh, the processes of a medical birth.

eeeeeeekkkkkk

~36w, 4d

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

My grandmother had both my dad and uncle vaginally. My dad was around 11 lbs and my uncle was close to 12. And this was in 1946 before epidurals.

SeekingBebe said...

well I am not totally opposed to a c-section, but of course there are complications that could happen.. but, I don't know.. I guess we will see in the moment really!